Wedding speech one-liners that are safe to use

A safe wedding speech one-liner teases a small, harmless habit the couple would happily admit to, then turns warm in the next sentence. Use two or three in a five-minute speech, and swap the bracketed details for true ones.

Every line below is original to this page, written to be adapted rather than recited. For the kinds of joke to leave out entirely, read our guide to wedding speech jokes to avoid.

The test before you use any line

Ask three questions. If the answer to any is no, cut the line.

1. Would the couple laugh if they heard it at breakfast on the wedding morning?
2. Would their grandparents be comfortable in the room when you say it?
3. Is it about a habit or a quirk, not a person's body, past partners, money or family trouble?

A teasing line is safe when the target is something the person is proud of or at least comfortable with, such as how long they take to get ready, how seriously they take a board game, or how many photos of the dog they have.

One-liners for the best man or best woman

• "[Name] has never been late to anything that matters. [He/She] has been late to everything else, but you can see the difference."
• "I have known [Name] for [number] years, and I have never once seen [him/her] lose at [game]. I have also never seen [him/her] play it with anyone who wasn't too scared to win."
• "When [Name] told me [he/she] had met someone, I said 'Good.' When [he/she] told me [partner] was patient, I said 'Good luck.'"
• "[Partner], you have taken on a project. I admire your courage and I have left the instruction manual under a chair."

One-liners for the maid of honour or bridesmaid

• "[Name] once spent forty minutes choosing a cake and four minutes choosing a husband. Looking at [partner] today, I can see which one got the proper research."
• "[Name] asked me to say something nice, something funny and something short. I managed two of the three."
• "[Partner], you should know that [Name] always knows where the good snacks are. You have married someone who plans."

One-liners for the father or mother of the bride or groom

• "People tell me today is the happiest day of [Name]'s life. I was hoping the happiest day would be the one when [he/she] moved out, but this is a very close second."
• "[Name] was a determined child. We told [him/her] never to follow a stranger, and [he/she] still brought home [partner], who has turned out to be a very good stranger."
• "I was asked to say a few words. [Spouse] has told me that is the only part of my speech [he/she] is going to enjoy."

One-liners for the groom or bride

• "I would like to thank everyone for coming. The seating plan took us longer than the engagement."
• "[Partner] says I never listen. I would defend myself, but I've been told to stand here and say something nice, and I am listening to that."
• "People ask how I knew [Partner] was the one. The honest answer is that [he/she] was the only person who laughed at my terrible dancing, and then asked me to do it again."

How to make a line yours

A one-liner works because it is specific. "[Name] is always late" gets a polite smile. "[Name] was late to their own birthday party and we started without them" gets a laugh because the room can picture it.

To adapt any line above:

1. Replace the generic detail with a real one. A true habit, a real place, a real number.
2. Keep the target gentle. Tease something the person would put on their own CV.
3. Land on the couple. Finish by turning towards them, so the laugh ends in a compliment.
4. Drop it if you have to explain it. Inside jokes belong in the pub, not the speech.

For a way to build jokes from your own stories instead, see our guide to writing a wedding speech joke.

Delivery matters more than the line

A joke needs a pause after it. Say the line, then stop and look at the couple. Rushing into the next sentence is the most common way to kill a good line. Our free wedding speech timer shows how long your speech runs at your own pace, and the free cue cards tool turns your speech into cards to print or read on a phone, so you can mark where to pause.

If you would rather not use jokes at all, that is a perfectly good choice. Our guide to a wedding speech without jokes shows how.

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